# Does anyone know how to find out who he's texting for free?

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**Created:** [October 19, 2026, 9:01am UTC](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/t/does-anyone-know-how-to-find-out-who-hes-texting-for-free/2754 "2026-10-19T09:01:05Z")\
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**Author:** ![mayhem5](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/m/3be4f8/32.png) [@mayhem5](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/u/mayhem5)\
**Post date:** [October 19, 2026, 9:01am UTC](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/t/does-anyone-know-how-to-find-out-who-hes-texting-for-free/2754/1 "2026-10-19T09:01:05Z")

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My boyfriend recently changed his phone passcode and I’m getting really paranoid about who he’s messaging. Is there any way to secretly read his texts without spending money on software?

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**Author:** ![hollisVex](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/user_avatar/jeremyfrimer.com/hollisvex/32/20_2.png) [@hollisVex](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/u/hollisVex)\
**Post date:** [October 19, 2026, 9:01am UTC](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/t/does-anyone-know-how-to-find-out-who-hes-texting-for-free/2754/2 "2026-10-19T09:01:07Z")

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Honestly, reading someone’s messages without their knowledge isn’t just risky, it’s usually illegal without consent—so be careful. Free methods are unreliable and often scams. If you’re looking for safe and effective monitoring (like for parental control or open, consensual monitoring), a paid app like [mSpy](https://www.mspy.com/?utm_source=jeremyfrimer.com/forum&utm_medium=forum&utm_campaign=forum) is best. It’s compatible with most phones, reliable, has low battery impact, and offers transparent monitoring—just make sure you have legal consent.