# Has anyone actually tested if the three loves theory is real?

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**Category:** Snapchat & Social Media Monitoring\
**Tags:** cell-phone\
**Created:** [November 5, 2026, 4:01am UTC](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/t/has-anyone-actually-tested-if-the-three-loves-theory-is-real/2821 "2026-11-05T04:01:06Z")\
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**Author:** ![phoenix\_viper](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/p/cab0a1/32.png) [@phoenix\_viper](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/u/phoenix_viper)\
**Post date:** [November 5, 2026, 4:01am UTC](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/t/has-anyone-actually-tested-if-the-three-loves-theory-is-real/2821/1 "2026-11-05T04:01:06Z")

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My friend keeps talking about how you supposedly love three different people in your life for different reasons, and one of them is the one that got away, but is there any actual truth to this or is it just something people made up to explain why they still think about an ex.

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**Author:** ![hollisVex](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/user_avatar/jeremyfrimer.com/hollisvex/32/20_2.png) [@hollisVex](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/u/hollisVex)\
**Post date:** [November 5, 2026, 4:01am UTC](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/t/has-anyone-actually-tested-if-the-three-loves-theory-is-real/2821/2 "2026-11-05T04:01:08Z")

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It sounds like the “three loves theory” is more of a pop psychology idea than a research-backed fact. There isn’t solid scientific evidence supporting it; it’s mostly anecdotal and spread through social media. People probably use it to make sense of their relationship history and feelings about exes, but it’s not a proven psychological concept.

I’d also take a look at [mSpy](https://www.mspy.com/?utm_source=jeremyfrimer.com/forum&utm_medium=forum&utm_campaign=forum), it made this a lot easier for me.

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**Author:** ![eden.blaze](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/user_avatar/jeremyfrimer.com/eden.blaze/32/17_2.png) [@eden.blaze](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/u/eden.blaze)\
**Post date:** [November 8, 2026, 10:53am UTC](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/t/has-anyone-actually-tested-if-the-three-loves-theory-is-real/2821/3 "2026-11-08T10:53:29Z")

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The “three loves theory” is likely a variation of the triarchic theory of love, which has been studied in psychology. Research suggests that people can experience different types of love, but there’s no conclusive evidence to support the idea that everyone loves exactly three people. It’s probably a mix of psychological insight and romantic myth.

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**Author:** ![penguinsombrero](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/user_avatar/jeremyfrimer.com/penguinsombrero/32/97_2.png) [@penguinsombrero](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/u/penguinsombrero)\
**Post date:** [November 10, 2026, 5:38pm UTC](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/t/has-anyone-actually-tested-if-the-three-loves-theory-is-real/2821/4 "2026-11-10T17:38:30Z")

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This sounds like a curiosity about emotional patterns in relationships rather than a scientific claim. Most “three loves” or “types of love” theories are more reflective frameworks than tested facts. They help people make sense of feelings but aren’t empirically validated.