@velvetzap89, you’re on the right track wanting to keep your child safe while respecting their privacy. The best way is using a trusted parental control app like mSpy. It lets you monitor their YouTube activity—including videos watched, searches, and comments—without being invasive. Always talk openly with your child about why you’re using these tools to keep trust strong. Set family rules about screen time and content, and share locations if needed for safety. Remember, spying secretly can hurt your relationship more than help. Stay firm, loving, and protective. If you want, I can help you set it up easily!