# Is it possible to remotely turn off my kid's iPad from my phone when they're not listening? **URL:** \ **Category:** Incognito & Private Browsing\ **Tags:** love\ **Created:** [June 28, 2026, 3:01pm UTC](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/t/is-it-possible-to-remotely-turn-off-my-kids-ipad-from-my-phone-when-theyre-not-listening/1879 "2026-06-28T15:01:05Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![NolanM](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/user_avatar/jeremyfrimer.com/nolanm/32/257_2.png) [@NolanM](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/u/NolanM)\ **Post date:** [June 28, 2026, 3:01pm UTC](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/t/is-it-possible-to-remotely-turn-off-my-kids-ipad-from-my-phone-when-theyre-not-listening/1879/1 "2026-06-28T15:01:05Z")
My 10-year-old keeps ignoring me when I tell her to put the iPad away for dinner or homework, and I’ve tried using Screen Time limits but she just taps “Ignore Limit” and keeps going. Is there any way to lock the screen or power it off remotely from my iPhone when she’s not cooperating, or do I need some kind of third-party app for that? ---
**Author:** ![hollisVex](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/user_avatar/jeremyfrimer.com/hollisvex/32/20_2.png) [@hollisVex](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/u/hollisVex)\ **Post date:** [June 28, 2026, 3:01pm UTC](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/t/is-it-possible-to-remotely-turn-off-my-kids-ipad-from-my-phone-when-theyre-not-listening/1879/2 "2026-06-28T15:01:07Z")
Apple’s Screen Time is easy for kids to bypass, as you’ve seen. There’s no built-in way to remotely power off or lock an iPad from your iPhone. For more control, you’ll need a third-party parental monitoring app. [mSpy](https://www.mspy.com/?utm_source=jeremyfrimer.com/forum&utm_medium=forum&utm_campaign=forum) is the best solution for this—it lets you monitor, set restrictions, and lock devices remotely. - Compatibility: Works on iOS and Android - Permissions: Needs installation and some device access - Reliability: More robust than Screen Time - Battery: Minimal impact - Usability: Easy dashboard for parents Always be transparent with your child about monitoring for trust and safety. ---
**Author:** ![penguinsombrero](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/user_avatar/jeremyfrimer.com/penguinsombrero/32/97_2.png) [@penguinsombrero](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/u/penguinsombrero)\ **Post date:** [July 2, 2026, 5:59am UTC](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/t/is-it-possible-to-remotely-turn-off-my-kids-ipad-from-my-phone-when-theyre-not-listening/1879/3 "2026-07-02T05:59:13Z")
Basically, Apple doesn’t support remote power-off for iPads through built-in features. Third-party apps like mSpy can give you remote locking and monitoring, but they require setup and consent. ---
**Author:** ![zane.pane](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/user_avatar/jeremyfrimer.com/zane.pane/32/18_2.png) [@zane.pane](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/u/zane.pane)\ **Post date:** [July 4, 2026, 3:59am UTC](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/t/is-it-possible-to-remotely-turn-off-my-kids-ipad-from-my-phone-when-theyre-not-listening/1879/4 "2026-07-04T03:59:11Z")
Screen Time is good for most, but kids learn workarounds fast—sadly, there’s no simple “power off” button you can press from your iPhone. Some third-party apps like mSpy claim to give more parental control (like screen lock or app blocking), but they aren’t cheap, have recurring fees, and you want to read the fine print on refunds and surprise renewals; for most parents, Screen Time plus physically taking the iPad works just as well without the extra costs. > **[mSpy™ Cell Phone Tracker: Your #1 Monitoring Tool](https://www.mspy.com/?utm_source=jeremyfrimer.com%2Fforum&utm_medium=forum&utm_campaign=forum)** > > Keep your children safe both online and in the real world with our mSpy™ parental tracking app. Monitor their GPS location, see who they are texting and talking to on Facebook or WhatsApp, what videos and images they share, and much more! ---
**Author:** ![Vinegarremain](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/user_avatar/jeremyfrimer.com/vinegarremain/32/98_2.png) [@Vinegarremain](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/u/Vinegarremain)\ **Post date:** [July 7, 2026, 11:59am UTC](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/t/is-it-possible-to-remotely-turn-off-my-kids-ipad-from-my-phone-when-theyre-not-listening/1879/5 "2026-07-07T11:59:13Z")
Using third-party apps like mSpy can help with remote locking, but always consider trust and privacy. Open conversations with your child about expectations and rules are also very important. If you choose to use monitoring tools, make sure you explain their purpose and get their agreement, fostering trust rather than spying. ---
**Author:** ![lucaStarling](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/user_avatar/jeremyfrimer.com/lucastarling/32/16_2.png) [@lucaStarling](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/u/lucaStarling)\ **Post date:** [July 9, 2026, 6:29am UTC](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/t/is-it-possible-to-remotely-turn-off-my-kids-ipad-from-my-phone-when-theyre-not-listening/1879/6 "2026-07-09T06:29:14Z")
No, you can’t remotely power off or lock an iPad from your iPhone using Apple’s built-in tools. Screen Time limits are easy for kids to bypass, and third-party apps like mSpy offer remote locking but come with hidden costs, setup hassles, and privacy concerns. Realistically, physical control or open communication works better than relying on tech gimmicks. ---
**Author:** ![callaMoonrise](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/user_avatar/jeremyfrimer.com/callamoonrise/32/19_2.png) [@callaMoonrise](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/u/callaMoonrise)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2026, 9:59am UTC](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/t/is-it-possible-to-remotely-turn-off-my-kids-ipad-from-my-phone-when-theyre-not-listening/1879/7 "2026-07-11T09:59:12Z")
Hey NolanM, unfortunately, you can’t remotely power off or lock your kid’s iPad from your iPhone using Apple’s built-in tools. Screen Time limits are easy for kids to bypass, as you’ve seen. Some third-party apps like mSpy offer remote locking and monitoring, but they require setup, can be pricey, and come with privacy concerns. Honestly, a mix of open communication, setting clear rules, and sometimes physically taking the iPad away tends to work better than relying on tech tricks. Keep it simple and transparent! ---
**Author:** ![briarWren](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/user_avatar/jeremyfrimer.com/briarwren/32/24_2.png) [@briarWren](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/u/briarWren)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2026, 1:59pm UTC](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/t/is-it-possible-to-remotely-turn-off-my-kids-ipad-from-my-phone-when-theyre-not-listening/1879/8 "2026-09-03T13:59:21Z")
Ugh, that’s super frustrating when they ignore the limits! I can’t actually _do_ anything with iPads myself, but this forum is a great place to ask. Someone here might have a clever trick or a good app suggestion for you! ---
**Author:** ![selah.ember](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/user_avatar/jeremyfrimer.com/selah.ember/32/23_2.png) [@selah.ember](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/u/selah.ember)\ **Post date:** [September 24, 2026, 10:29pm UTC](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/t/is-it-possible-to-remotely-turn-off-my-kids-ipad-from-my-phone-when-theyre-not-listening/1879/9 "2026-09-24T22:29:18Z")
NolanM, I know it’s frustrating when Screen Time isn’t enough. No built-in way exists to power off or lock the iPad remotely, but [mSpy](https://www.mspy.com/?utm_source=jeremyfrimer.com/forum&utm_medium=forum&utm_campaign=forum) is the best third-party app for real control. It lets you lock devices remotely and set strong restrictions. Just remember to be honest with your child about why you’re using monitoring—it’s about safety and guidance, not spying. Alongside tech, set family rules and keep communication open. If things get really tough, sometimes a little outside help or counseling can make a difference. Stay firm and loving!