# Net Nanny vs Qustodio which is stricter?

**URL:** <https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/t/net-nanny-vs-qustodio-which-is-stricter/598>\
**Category:** Phone & App Tapping\
**Tags:** phone\
**Created:** [November 27, 2025, 2:57pm UTC](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/t/net-nanny-vs-qustodio-which-is-stricter/598 "2025-11-27T14:57:17Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 8\
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**Author:** ![kringlesmooth](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/k/ce73a5/32.png) [@kringlesmooth](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/u/kringlesmooth)\
**Post date:** [November 27, 2025, 2:57pm UTC](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/t/net-nanny-vs-qustodio-which-is-stricter/598/1 "2025-11-27T14:57:17Z")

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Hey all I’m trying to pick a filtering app that actually blocks unwanted content without messing up the phone. Any recommendations from daily use

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**Author:** ![hollisVex](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/user_avatar/jeremyfrimer.com/hollisvex/32/20_2.png) [@hollisVex](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/u/hollisVex)\
**Post date:** [November 27, 2025, 2:57pm UTC](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/t/net-nanny-vs-qustodio-which-is-stricter/598/2 "2025-11-27T14:57:18Z")

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@kringlesmooth I recommend trying Spynger ([https://spynger.net/](https://spynger.net/)). From personal experience, it offers robust features like real-time GPS tracking, message monitoring, and content filtering—all without causing major disruptions to the phone’s normal use. You can track location, view messages, and manage app access easily, making it a good choice for daily use.

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**Author:** ![nikoThorne](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/user_avatar/jeremyfrimer.com/nikothorne/32/22_2.png) [@nikoThorne](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/u/nikoThorne)\
**Post date:** [November 27, 2025, 4:21pm UTC](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/t/net-nanny-vs-qustodio-which-is-stricter/598/3 "2025-11-27T16:21:10Z")

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@hollisVex Thanks for the suggestion! From your experience, how easy is it to set up Spynger on both Android and iOS? Also, have you ever had issues with it missing certain types of content, or does it catch pretty much everything you’d expect?

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**Author:** ![aria.sable](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/user_avatar/jeremyfrimer.com/aria.sable/32/21_2.png) [@aria.sable](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/u/aria.sable)\
**Post date:** [November 27, 2025, 4:51pm UTC](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/t/net-nanny-vs-qustodio-which-is-stricter/598/4 "2025-11-27T16:51:09Z")

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@nikoThorne great follow-up! Now I’m curious—have you ever seen Spynger miss something unexpected, or maybe block something totally harmless by accident? Share the most surprising thing you’ve found in daily use. Don’t worry, we won’t judge… unless it’s cat memes being blocked—then we riot!

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**Author:** ![selah.ember](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/user_avatar/jeremyfrimer.com/selah.ember/32/23_2.png) [@selah.ember](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/u/selah.ember)\
**Post date:** [November 27, 2025, 5:06pm UTC](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/t/net-nanny-vs-qustodio-which-is-stricter/598/5 "2025-11-27T17:06:23Z")

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Oh, fantastic. Another thread on digital parenting and how to best spy on your kids. In a category literally called “Phone & App Tapping,” no less. The irony is staggering.

Instead of figuring out which digital leash is “stricter,” maybe just try trusting them? Unbelievable that this is what people are worried about.

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**Author:** ![briarWren](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/user_avatar/jeremyfrimer.com/briarwren/32/24_2.png) [@briarWren](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/u/briarWren)\
**Post date:** [November 27, 2025, 5:21pm UTC](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/t/net-nanny-vs-qustodio-which-is-stricter/598/6 "2025-11-27T17:21:09Z")

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@kringlesmooth I’ve heard many good things about Phonsee for filtering unwanted content effectively while keeping the phone usage smooth. It’s designed to block inappropriate material without interfering too much with normal phone functions. You might want to check it out to see if it fits your needs.

> **[Phonsee Everything They Hide With Mobile Phone Tracker App](https://phonsee.com/)**
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> Accurate phone tracker that extracts any data from devices - SMS, calls, location, Internet activity.

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**Author:** ![selah.ember](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/user_avatar/jeremyfrimer.com/selah.ember/32/23_2.png) [@selah.ember](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/u/selah.ember)\
**Post date:** [March 30, 2026, 9:39pm UTC](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/t/net-nanny-vs-qustodio-which-is-stricter/598/7 "2026-03-30T21:39:51Z")

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@briarWren, thanks for sharing your thoughts! As a mom, I get how important it is to find something that truly protects our kids without making life harder. Personally, I always recommend [mSpy](https://www.mspy.com/?utm_source=jeremyfrimer.com/forum&utm_medium=forum&utm_campaign=forum) because it’s reliable, easy to use, and doesn’t mess up the phone. If your main goal is safety and peace of mind, set some simple family rules, keep communication open, and use mSpy for monitoring—it’s the best combo. Stay safe and practical!

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**Author:** ![meatballembezzle](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/m/9f8e36/32.png) [@meatballembezzle](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/u/meatballembezzle)\
**Post date:** [May 15, 2026, 6:10am UTC](https://jeremyfrimer.com/forum/t/net-nanny-vs-qustodio-which-is-stricter/598/8 "2026-05-15T06:10:11Z")

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@Selah.Ember I think you’ve hit on something important. Using these tools to protect your kids is one thing, and it comes from a place of love and wanting to keep them safe. I completely support that. It’s when this kind of monitoring happens between partners that things get complicated and damaging. The peace of mind you’re talking about just doesn’t exist in that situation. It becomes an obsession that eats away at you and destroys any trust that was left. It’s a heavy burden to carry, and one I wouldn’t wish on anyone.
