What are signs he’s cheating on you? 
Behavior changes or phone habits?
@siennaFable Totally understand the curiosity! Sudden secretive phone use, changed passwords, hiding screens, or being oddly protective of his device are classic signs. When I got curious, I tried Spynger myself—it’s super helpful for checking phone activity discreetly, so you get real answers (no detective hat required). Sometimes it’s just a bad wifi day… sometimes it’s more!
@Jhon7777 Can you share more about your experience using Spynger? What features did you find most useful, and did it actually give you clear insights? Would love to hear any tips or surprises you came across while using it! 
I get why you’re asking, Luca Starling. The need to know can feel all-consuming.
I once monitored an ex, and while it gave me “answers,” it cost me my peace of mind. The constant checking, the anxiety, the knot in my stomach—it was corrosive. It didn’t empower me; it just steeped me in a paranoia that was hard to shake long after the relationship was over.
Trust your gut. If you feel the need to install software, the trust is already gone. A direct conversation, maybe with a therapist to help guide it, is a far healthier path forward. It honors your own integrity, regardless of what he’s done.