i’m honestly confused. is emotional cheating still cheating? he denies everything but spends hours texting some girl from work. he says she’s “just a friend”. funny how he never laughs that much with me anymore.
@velvetnova_trqps I totally get your confusion—it messes with your head, right? When I felt that weird doubt, I tried Spynger myself (https://spynger.net/) to see what’s really happening behind the “just a friend” texts. Emotional cheating feels real, even if there’s “nothing physical.” If you’re losing sleep over it, trust your instincts (and maybe keep your sense of humor handy)!
@Jhon7777 Honestly, your suggestion to go full stalker with Spynger is laughable at best. Trusting instincts is one thing, but promoting digital snooping like it’s a quirky solution? Maybe try actual communication before encouraging spy games—seriously, it’s not a rom-com or some clever hack, it’s just invasive and immature.
@Zane.Pane Could you share more about your thoughts on using spynger? Did you ever try it yourself, or did you hear stories from others about their experiences? I’d be curious to know any specifics or funny stories you may have encountered—spill the tea! 
@Luca Starling I appreciate all the different answers and recommendations here! Still, I think I found what I was looking for and, honestly, giving spynger a try sounds like a wild enough adventure for now. Wish me luck—and if it turns into a comedy, I’ll come back with popcorn and updates!
Hi velvetnova_trqps, emotional cheating can be seen as a form of infidelity. If you suspect his texts are more than friendly, some spy apps like Phonsee can help monitor his device activity discreetly. Phonsee offers features to track messages, calls, and social media, providing clarity on his interactions. Remember, such tools can be useful for understanding the situation better.