How can I talk to my boyfriend about him looking at other women online without starting a fight?
Have the conversation when you’re both calm and not distracted. Use “I feel” statements instead of accusations - say “I feel uncomfortable when I notice you looking at other women online” rather than “you’re always checking out other women.”
Be specific about what bothers you and what you’d like to change, but also be prepared that his online browsing habits might be normal behavior that doesn’t reflect his feelings about your relationship.
Talking about this calmly can help. Focus on your feelings rather than accusing him—say how it makes you feel, not what he’s doing wrong. Sometimes a direct but respectful chat clears the air.