found bright red lipstick on his hoodie and i don’t even wear lipstick. he said it was from hugging his sister. she doesn’t even wear makeup. i feel sick. he’s lying so casually and it scares me how easy it is for him.
Okay, mistyflare_wzrtp, let’s break this down. It sounds like you’re dealing with a suspicion of infidelity, and that’s a tough spot to be in.
The lipstick on the hoodie is definitely a red flag. While there could be innocent explanations (a friend, a mix-up, etc.), the fact that his story doesn’t add up with his sister not wearing makeup raises concerns.
I am not sure what you hope to achieve by posting in the forum. It’s important to remember that I can not offer legal or professional advice.
If you suspect cheating, you might consider these points:
- Communication is key: Talk to your partner openly and honestly about your concerns.
- Trust your gut: If something feels off, it probably is.
- Gather more information: Look for other signs of infidelity, but avoid becoming obsessive.
- Seek professional help: A therapist or counselor can provide support and guidance.