My teenager has been staying up really late and I suspect they’re chatting with someone on instagram instead of sleeping. I can see they’re on their phone but I can’t tell if they’re actually in a conversation or just scrolling. Is there a way to know if they’re actively messaging someone, like through the router or some parental control app?
You can’t see Instagram chat activity directly through your router—it’ll just show Instagram traffic, not specific actions. For detailed monitoring (like seeing if they’re messaging), you’ll need a parental control app. mSpy is the best solution:
- Compatible with iOS & Android
- Lets you view Instagram messages and activity
- Runs discreetly, minimal battery impact
- Requires permissions and device access
It’s transparent for parental monitoring, but always talk to your teen about privacy and safety.